Content With Discontentment

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“What I am anxious to see in Christian believers is a beautiful paradox. I want to see in them the joy of finding God while at the same time they are blessedly pursuing Him. I want to see in them the great joy of having God yet always wanting Him.” – A.W. Tozer

Doesn’t that just hit you, tough girl? A beautiful paradox of content yet discontent. Of joy yet longing for joy.

Jesus. You can’t get enough of Him.

The thing is you know all about discontentment, don’t you? You know what it is to long and to want. To be consumed with the desire for something. Maybe it’s something new. Maybe it’s a change in circumstances. Maybe it’s wanting that new season of life. Whatever it is, we all identify with that feeling of wanting more.

Unfortunately, when it comes to contentment, we are typically content with far less than we should be. It could be contentment with average grades or a kinda clean room. You’re content with being just alright with your parents.

Worse is being content with our relationship with Jesus. Being content with a lukewarm faith or one that is moving at a snail’s pace. You figure it’s okay just going to church and reading your Bible every once in a while. After all, it’s better than nothing.

But to take our understanding of contentment and discontentment and apply them to our spiritual walk – well, that’s another story. It’s running after God full force, every day following Him and experiencing Him through His Word and through fellowship. It’s finding a joy that surpasses all understanding and comes simply from knowing Him.

But you don’t stop there. It’s like getting a sip of the sweetest most satisfying drink in existence – and all you want is more. So you keep drinking and keep savoring, each taste filling you with complete satisfaction, yet leaving you thirsting for more.

That, tough girl, is true joy in Christ. It’s the joy of having every want and need met in Him. It’s being comforted, cherished, and loved. It’s being treasured, protected, and blessed. It’s the joy that comes from being content…so content that you want more. More peace. More relationship. More knowing and being known.

Do you know that joy? Don’t you want to?

“Until now you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be full.” – John 16:24

Question: Is your joy truly in Jesus, or Jesus and something else? What are you discontent about right now? What would your life look like if you were truly content in Christ and the only thing you were discontent with was wanting more of Him?

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Love Your Dad

Typically during the last week of the month I blog about boys – which, according to my statistics, you tough girls like the most. Well, this week’s blog will be a little different. I want to talk about dads.

Chances are, when you read that, you felt one of two things – excitement or dread. I want to talk to each one of you.

If you have an amazing dad – Thank God for him! And then tell your dad thank you! You have been blessed, tough girl, with a fantastic example of what a dad should be, what a husband should be, and – most importantly – a sample of how God loves you. You have a dad who cares about you, is there for you, is willing to sacrifice for you…what a gift! Please don’t take it for granted. There are so many girls out there who would give anything to have a dad like yours.

Always remember that the way he loves you is simply a mirrored reflection of how much your Father in heaven loves you. Your earthly dad is always there? God is even more faithful (Joshua 1:9). Your earthly dad makes you feel beautiful and loved? Your heavenly Father made you and rejoices over you with singing (Zephaniah 3:17). Your earthly dad disciplines you? God the Father disciplines you even more because He wants what’s best for you (Hebrews 12:7-11).

So do yourself – and your dad – a favor: thank him. And thank Him. And always rejoice in this wonderful relationship you have.

 

If you have a distant/uninvolved/absent dad – tough girl, my heart goes out to you. That relationship that was supposed to be so vital to your well-being, that protection you should have have, that sense of safety and security and belonging you were supposed to have either didn’t happen or didn’t happen enough. Maybe your lack of relationship with your dad has left you depressed or lonely. Or maybe it’s made you a people pleaser, trying so hard at everything you do to win the approval that should have come from him. Or maybe it’s left you feeling ugly and un-special, so you seek that acceptance and attention from any guy that will give it to you.

Here’s the thing – even the girl with the worst dad in the world has the greatest Dad in the universe. Your Father in heaven seeks to be all that your earthly dad should be and more. He longs to lavish you with His love, to reaffirm your special and beautiful self, to hold your hand in thick and thin, and always always be there for you. His heart is broken that your dad wasn’t the dad he should have been, but He is in heaven ready and willing to fill that hole that your dad left.

Your dad isn’t around either physically or emotionally? God will never leave you or forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:8). Your dad never built you up or told you how beautiful and wonderful you are? Your heavenly Father says you are His worksmanship and He has amazing things that only you can do (Ephesians 2:10). Your dad has hurt you in a way that you think you will never get over? Your Father says that you are a brand new creation (2 Corinthians 5:17).

So do yourself a favor – whenever you feel the hurt and the pain that comes from your relationship with your dad, lift it up to your Father in heaven and know beyond a shadow of a doubt that He is that Father you so desperately desire.

Question: How has your relationship with your dad helped or hurt your relationship with God the Father? How do these Bible verses help? What kind of qualities will you look for in a boyfriend that would point to him being a godly Father?

When You Need To Be A Little More Serious

How would you describe yourself?

Energetic?

Immature?

Social?

Awkward?

Crazy?

Irresponsible?

Teenagers and young adults don’t have the best reputation in our culture. Just look at any show on ABC Family and you will see that you are painted as dramatic, inconsiderate, rebellious, selfish, hormone-driven, short sighted, and slightly stupid.

Yes, you should be offended.

But here’s my question for you, tough girl. Are any of those negative stereotypes true for you? Do people at your school think you’re just like everybody else? Do your parents? Does any part of your life reflect those girls on TV and at your school that you find so disgusting?

Truth is, you could probably afford to be a little more serious. I’m not talking about not smiling or laughing. That’s boring, not serious. It’s about much more than that.

Serious conversations. Having real heart-to-heart talks with friends where you talk about things that are deep. Being vulnerable and open, even if it is hard or embarrassing.

Serious school time. Not goofing around or playing with your phone. Actually respecting your teacher and your education.

Serious family time. Not taking your parents and all that they provide for granted. Helping out without grumbling. Occasionally choosing them over your friends.

Serious thoughtfulness. Thinking through the things you say and how they will be received. Thinking through what you wear and what message it sends. Thinking about how you spend your time and if it is best.

Serious Jesus love. Reading your Bible. Praying. Giving of your time and money. Making sacrifices. Reading Christian books. Talking to people about your faith.

If you’re itching to look different – to be different – than the typical young girl, maybe it’s time you started being a little more serious about…well, everything.

 

“Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. For you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God…put to death therefore what is earthly in you…” – Colossians 3:2-3, 5

 

Question: Do people look at you think you’re different than everyone around you? Are you seen as dedicated, focused, and mature? Where in your life do you need to be a little more serious?

 

How To Fight Like A Girl – First Day Of School Edition

For most people in my area, this week marks the first week of school. I can picture it now – school hallways smelling of new pencils, new shoe rubber, and enough dude body spray to make Abercrombie seem mild. People are talking and laughing as their eyes roam the halls, trying to spot old friends and spy out new ones. Hearts and heads are filled with a slew of emotions: anticipation, anxiety, excitement, insecurity…all before that first first bell rings.

Whether you are headed off to jr. high, high school, college, or are just hanging out while you figure life out, this is a special time. This transition from summer to fall is like a second wind – a renewed burst of energy where your recommit yourself to life, living, and following Jesus. So how will you do it this year?

Be more Jesus centered. Set a goal of waking up 15 minutes earlier and reading your Bible before school. Turn off the radio on the way to school and use that time to pray. Put Bible verses on your book covers, on the dash board of your car, in your lunch. Find ways to remind yourself every moment of every day that you desire to follow Jesus.

Be less self focused. Don’t change outfits a million times. Cut back on your get ready time. When you get to school, ask your friends questions instead of talking about yourself (a good way to measure this is to count how many times you use the words “I” or “me” in a conversation.)

Be more others focused. Reach out to someone new even on that first day. Practice smiling more. Don’t let anything come out of your mouth that is even remotely gossip, slander, or complaining. Be sunshine!

Work Hard. Set a precedent for how this year will look. Pay attention in class and look your teacher in the eye. Don’t pass notes and don’t text. Do your homework quickly.

Take The Time To Rest. I can’t tell you how many girls I know who are already running a million miles an hour as school is just beginning. Don’t get into the habit of running yourself into the ground. Yes, work hard and be diligent. But take time to slow down and connect with your family. Dinner, a board game, or a TV show – just do something to refresh yourself and be with your fam.

“You shall diligently keep the commandments of the Lord your God, and His testimonies and His statutes, which He has commanded you. And you shall do what is right and good in the sight of the Lord, that it many go well with you…” – Deuteronomy 6:17-18

How are you hoping this school year will look? How do you want it to be different from last year? What can you do to follow Jesus more closely?

Zombies Vs. Aliens: Which Side Are You On?

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No, I’m not advertising some up and coming B Horror movie.

No, I’m not pitching a new sci-fi novel idea (though, come to think of it…)

This is real life. Really real life.

On one side are the zombies. Despite the way that movies and video games have portrayed zombies, they aren’t gray, cold, drooling, dismembered creatures who can only groan and desire the sweet taste of human flesh. But it is fair to say that they’re the walking dead. And aliens are hardly little green men. Rather, they are otherworldly, living each day in eager anticipation of going home. Here are the comparisons. Which side are you on?

 

 Zombies want what they want and they want it now. Brains! Money! Success! Popularity! Happiness! Whatever it is, a zombie’s appetite is insatiable and they will spend their entire lives pursing it.

Aliens want only those things they can take back home with them. Things in this world just don’t satisfy them, so they don’t spend their lives chasing after things that don’t matter.

 

Zombies look like zombies. There’s no mistaking them because they all look the same – just like every other zombie around them.

Aliens look like alien and different. The way they dress. The way they talk. The way they live. It’s obvious that they’re different.

 

Zombies only care about themselves. Everything they do is for their benefit. And they’re zombies, so they don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.

Aliens care about each other and the mothership. They want nothing more than to go home. Their life is spent preparing for that homecoming – they take care of each other and they try and get as many people to go along with them as they can. They do that by caring, serving, and loving.

 

Zombies think they’re alive, but they’re dead. The walk, talk, and spend their lives thinking they’re just fine. But when push comes to shove and this world is over, so are they.

Aliens live for something else. This world is not their home. They know, when it is over, they are going somewhere infinitely better – in a galaxy far, far away.

 

So, what do you think? Are you a zombie, mindlessly going through life, pursing everything you want, putting yourself and your desires first? They’re accepted, well-liked, popular, and portrayed as the norm.

Or are you an alien, living on the hope of the life after this one, knowing this world isn’t your home, and doing everything you can to experience the homeworld now as you eagerly await your homecoming? You won’t fit it. You’ll be rejected, ridiculed, and mocked.

^“Dear friends, I urge you, as aliens and strangers in the world, to abstain from sinful desires, which war against your soul. Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us.” – 1 Peter 2:11-12

You weren’t meant to look like everyone else. Don’t be like the living dead. Be a stranger to this world and a lover of God. Live life in a way that makes you stand out, above reproach, anticipating the return of our Savior.

Zombies may be the majority, but aliens will be the ones to win the war.

Question: What are differences you notice between zombies and aliens? What zombie tendencies do you have? How can you better live as an alien in this world?

 

 

Know Your Worth

You deserve better than what you have right now.

Now, that may seem contradictory to things I’ve written in the past regarding contentment, but stick with me for a minute.

You deserve better than what you have right now because you have so much to look forward to in the future – namely, a perfect blissful eternity with Jesus. Which you aren’t going to get right now.

But what you do deserve right now is the glorious, God-glorifying life He has planned for you.

Do you believe that?

You deserve joy

“These things I have spoken to you, that My joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full.” – John 15:11

You deserve love

“By this we know love, that He laid down His life for us, and we ought to lay down our lives for the brothers.” – 1 John 3:16

You deserve a super godly guy

“How can a young man keep his way pure? By guarding it according your word. With my whole heart I seek you; let me not wander from Your commandments!” – Psalm 119:9-10

You are worth all of that, tough girl. The problem is, not enough ladies believe this. They are willing to compromise and settle because they don’t know they are worth more. But they are.

You are.

You are worth daily living that feels like best day of summer vacation. A joy that won’t be shaken by anything or anyone. A hope that gets you through the toughest of times.

You are worth love that moves mountains. Friendships and friends that refresh you like lemonade. Love that fills you up so much, you can’t help but love other people because, if not, you’ll just burst!

You are worth a guy who reminds you of Jesus. He’s strong, sensitive, wise, considerate, thoughtful, and godly. He treats you like you are a princess, the daughter of a King. He’ll fight for you, protect you, and life you up.

You. Are. Worth it! Not because of anything that you’ve done, but because you have a Father in heaven who wanted to give it to you so badly, He died for it.

Question: Where do you most struggle with your value? Do you have any Bible verses that help you when you struggle? How does knowing your worth and value change the way you live your everyday life?

 

What Your Friends Say About You

“Well, if Kristen jumped off a bridge, would you do that too?”

Ah, yes. The ultimate mom “Duh!” quote. As if you would actually hang out with people who jumped off bridges for fun!

Your whole life, you’ve been told to be cautious of who you are friends with. Your parents warn you. TV spots portray a happy-go-lucky girl who, because of associating with the wrong crowd, travels down a dark and bumpy road and ends up pregnant and on crack.

Maybe Kristen jumping off the bridge isn’t such a bad influence after all.

But there is something to be said about friends and what they say about you. The people you spend the most time with reflect on you and your reputation.

So, what do your friends say about you?

 

The Band/Choir/Drama/Club Crowd

The Pro’s: You are a geek, through and through. You do what you love and you love what you do. You could care less about being part of the popular crowd because you love that you’re around people who are as passionate about what you do as you are. It’s not that you’re exclusive. It’s just that you know no one gets you like these people do.

The Con’s: The thought of branching out beyond this friend group slightly terrifies you because rejection from outsiders seems unavoidable.

The Solution: Spread the geek love! You may get laughed at. You may get rejected. Or you may come across some folks who, while totally different than you, seriously love your quirkiness.

The Sports Crowd

The Pro’s: Dedication. Passion. Perseverance. To say you are driven is an understatement. You love to compete and love to win. Every day is a challenge waiting to be conquered.

The Con’s: Competitiveness can lead to superficiality. Maybe it’s because you feel like you need to be better than people around you. Or maybe it’s because you fear “losing” some of your reputation and status.

The Solution: Be real. Whatever that means for you, be real. Show some weakness and humanity. Show that you don’t have it all together. It will make others around you feel like you are so much more approachable.

 

The Fringe Crowd

Pro’s: You aren’t living your  life to please men. Who cares if over half your class wouldn’t be able to pick you out of a line up? You have a couple of friends and you all feel the same way.

Con’s: Sometimes being so carefree can make you seem careless when it comes to people. The attitude of saying you don’t need people makes them feel rejected and unwanted.

The Solution: Try mixing it up a bit. Be on the fringe but be inviting to people who maybe don’t have anyone. Do intentional things to show people that you care and that you don’t think you’re too cool for them.

 

The Church Crowd

Pro’s: You love being around your sisters and brothers in Christ. Nothing makes you happier than knowing you all have the same standards. You can tell it like it is, totally trust each other, and pray for one another at the drop of a pin. You don’t have to worry about bad language or immodesty.

Con’s: You look exclusive. You look like people have to shape up and change before they can be your friend (totally not a Jesus thing) If someone isn’t a Christian, they feel like they can’t be close to you.

The Solution: Make it a point to reach out and spend time with non-Christians (without compromising). Show them that you care about them and find their friendship valuable. If you can’t think of at least one person who is somewhat close to you and non a Christian, you need to branch out.

Who you are surround by says a lot about who you are.

“A man’s growth is seen in the successive choirs of his friends.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Question: What kind of crowd do you fall into? What would people who only saw you with your friends think about the kind of person you are? How can you make sure you are loving God and loving people in your friend groups?

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What Is Your Friendship Reputation?

 

If I were to go to your school or your work place and ask people what they think about you, what would they say?

“She’s so nice!”

“She always seems too busy to talk to me.”

“What a sweet girl! She’s so thoughtful.”

“I don’t think she likes me.”

“We used to be close, but not anymore.”

“Who are you talking about?”

Like it or not, you have a reputation. And, like it or not, you have done things to deserve that reputation. And one of your biggest reputation builders/destroyers is the kind of friend you are.

Are you faithful? Patient? Forgiving? Long-suffering? Thoughtful? Generous?

Are you flaky? Inconsistent? Moody? Exclusive? Spread so thing that you can’t give fully to anyone?

The book of Proverbs has so much to say on the topic of friendship. Here are just a couple of verses:

 

“A dishonest man spreads strife, and a whisper separates close friends.” – Proverbs 16:28

-Are you a gossipy type friend? Do you repeat things you shouldn’t? Do people feel like they can trust you?

 

“Whoever covers and offense seeks love, but he who repeats a matter separates close friends.” – Proverbs 17:9

-Are you forgiving? Or are you known for holding a grudge and painting people in a bad light?

 

“A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.” – Proverbs 17:17

-Are you there for your friends, no matter what? Do you go out of your way to support them and love them when they need it?

 

“A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.” – Proverbs 18:24

-Are you faithful? Can you be counted on no matter what? Or are you too busy and spread thin to be a good friend?

 

“Make no friendship with a man given to anger, nor go with a wrathful man.” – Proverbs 22:24

-Do you have a temper? Are friends afraid to be real with you because they fear your reaction?

 

“Faithful are the wounds of a friend; profuse are the kisses of an enemy.” – Proverbs 27:6

-Are you willing to speak the truth in love? Would you confront a friend on something hard and stick by their side as they figure things out?

 

“Do not forsake your friend and your father’s friend…” – Proverbs 27:10

-Do you go through friends like a pack of gum? Have you had a new “best friend” every year?

 

Friends are precious. Too often we get caught up in what they do for us instead of thinking about what we can give to them.

Question: What kind of friend would people say you are? Are there friends you have hurt in the past that you need to apologize to and seek reconciliation with? Are there friends in your life now that you can be a better friend to?

 

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Ten Ways To Stand Out From The Crowd

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If you don’t already know, I live in Olympia, Washington. I am convinced that Olympia is in the top five for cities where people dress like freaks. Have you seen Portlandia? Yeah, that show is pretty much everywhere in Oregon and Washington west of the Cascades.

For some reason way beyond me, it’s become “in” to be different. The more mismatched, hipster, and funky – the better.

If that weren’t strange enough, it’s this whole being different thing that makes you fit in. And if you strive to be normal and fit it, it sets you apart as not fitting in at all.

Wait…what?

See, this is why it’s great to live life according to different standards than the world. The whole hipster thing just doesn’t make sense.

So here’s ten ways to stand out from the typical teenage crowd…in a good way. Whether you live in hipster, suburban, rural, or urban community, these are for you.

1. Dress to impress…Jesus. Yes, I know. The modesty thing again. But it needs to be said over and over! It kills me to see teenage girls dressing “cute” by rocking booty shorts and low cut tops. Cover up, girl! Keep people’s eyes on your face and not your body!

2. Put down your phone. A guy from my church, after returning from the mall, affectionately nicknamed teenager’s thumbs as “texticles.” Seriously. Is anything that vital and important that you need to read and write back every other minute? Do yourself a favor – go to the mall/school/your living room and turn your phone off. Shocking, right? Show the world that you don’t have to be plugged in all the time.

3. Be “all there.” At school. At church. At dinner with your family. You are so used to multitasking, it’s hard to give anything your undivided attention. But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try. Curb the note passing and texting, quit doodling, don’t whisper, and take your eyes off the clock.

4. Respect adults. From your parents to your teachers to the rest of the world, you are sorely outnumbered in the teenager to adult ratio. But a little respect goes a long way. Listening and not talking back. Holding doors. Even the occasional “sir” and “ma’am” will be enough to make people look twice and realize that you are different.

5. Try hard. Somehow, somewhere along the line, the expectation for teenagers has become 75%. C. Average. And when people expect that, you live up to that. Hey, if no one else is going to raise the bar, raise it yourself. Give 110% at school, at home, on your homework, and on your church life.

6. Smile. And, no, this isn’t just for those emo girls. (Is emo still a thing? I feel like I don’t see them as much as I used to. Maybe they all started taking a little more Vitamin D…) Smile in a way that says there is joy in your heart. Don’t give spiteful, mean smirks. Don’t whisper to your friends and then smile. Walk, drive, talk, and sleep with a smile on your face. (And on a separate note – don’t obsess over your smile. It’s the one God gave you. Don’t not smile in pictures or in front of people because you’re self-conscious. Show it proudly. Jesus Himself painted it!)

7. Do one selfless thing a day. Pick up random trash. Hold the door for someone. Park way in the back of the school parking lot. Stay after class and straighten chairs. Fold your sister’s laundry. Do at least one thing once a day to show that you don’t think you’re the center of the universe.

8. Admit weakness. Whoa. Whoa! Wait – do I mean that you should admit that you’re less than perfect? Let your friends know when you struggle and screw up? Actually say the sentence, “I was wrong?” Yes, yes I do. By admitting when you’re struggling, you give glory to the One who can get you through it.

9. Get by with less. It’s amazing to me how expensive it is to be a hipster. For people who dress like they did a blindfold grab at Goodwill, they sure do spend a lot of money on super nice bikes and anything with an Apple or an iPaid-a-lot on it. Other groups are the same, always buying the latest and greatest gadgets or filling their closets with new clothes. Be different by not always wanting something new. Be different by being content.

10. Be kind. Not nice. Not fake. Truly and genuinely kind. It’s easy to do kind things for people who are kind to you. But extend that to people who don’t like you, people who annoy you, people who believe different things than you.

Question: Which of these do you already do? Which of these could you increase so as to stand out? Are there other things that you do to make yourself different than those around you?

When PDA’s Are Good For Christians

Boys are blue. Girls are red. Together, they make purple. And purple is not allowed.

Well, at youth group events, anyway.

But apart from awkward two week teenage relationships, there is an affection that Christians should not only desire and strive for but show no matter what. Actually, twelve of them.

Jonathan Edwards, known as the most important American Christian in history, wrote a work called Religious Affections. In it, he talks about how there are certain things which every Christian should display. Evidences which reveal the change inside of us from Jesus who changes us for His glory.

In other words, things that make it obvious if someone loves Jesus or not.

Are you wondering how affectionate you are? How passionate, zealous, and devout?

#1 – A new inward perception. You are created. You are not alone. You were fearfully and wonderfully made by Someone wonderful and worthy of holy reverence and fear. Yes, there is a God.

#2 – A pure love for God. Not a half-hearted, when it makes me feel good, “Hey, there’s a cute boy at that church so I’ll go there,” kind of love. But a consuming, heart stopping, can’t stop smiling kind of love for the God of the Bible.

#3 – A sense of beauty for God’s holiness. Realizing just how big and perfect God is and how little and imperfect you are isn’t a sad thing. It’s an amazing thing! It causes you stop and bust out in song and dance because He’s so worth it!

#4 – A spiritual understanding. The Bible is real. What it says is real. Jesus is the star and everything points to Him. And as a result…

#5 – A true conviction based on Scripture. The things that the Bible says aren’t distant and arbitrary. They’re for you personally.

#6 – A deep sense of a person’s insufficiency. You are a sinner. If you were Eve in the garden, you would have been making forbidden fruit pie on day 1. You are in desperate need of salvation and a Savior. Like, seriously, desperately, can’t hardly breathe in need.

#7 – A growth in becoming Christ like. You aren’t the same as you were last year. You are kinder, more generous, more bold, more loving. Bottom line – day by day you are becoming more like Jesus.

#8 – A Christ centered gentleness. The way you treat people reeks of Jesus. You stand apart from every girl around you because of how kind and gentle you are. And it isn’t something based on their likeability or your own good mood. It’s because you love Jesus.

#9 – A horror and sensitivity for sin. Sin disturbs you more than the idea of the Hangover III. When you sin, you are quick to repent and long to change. And there’s no justifying sin because you know your Bible well enough to call sin sin.

#10 – Consistency and constancy. Good days. Bad days. Busy days and Saturdays. 24/7 you are a Christian.

#11 – An intensified spiritual longing. You seriously get Scripture when it talks about hungering for God. No matter how much of Him you get, you want more. You want to be closer. You want to be more like Christ.

#12 – Holy practices. Commitment to reading the Bible, prayer, and going to church. Generosity, sacrifice, service, and purity. These are just a few of the many, many life-style changes that consume the affectionate Christian.

 

Question: Which of these affections are evident in your life? Which would you like to make grow? Do you have any friends who you think need to see this list and work on their PDA’s?

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